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OK, I got to ask. Did sending the letter elicit the response you were after?


Yes. It got her openly stating she doesn't want to go to mediation, i.e. she doesn't want to take the actions necessary to end our marriage. AND, it is making her realize she is no longer in control.

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I dont think this was ever asked, how much experience does she have as a marriage counselor? do you think she on this site?


She is a very experienced MC, but she and her colleagues have no respect for MWD. She's (obviously) from the school of "do what's right for you rather than the marriage".

I have worried quite a bit about whether she knows about this site, but I've seen no evidence of it so far. I've been hesitant to include specific details, but as the months have gone by, more and more has been revealed. Why do you ask? Are you her? LOL!

Last edited by futureunknown; 12/01/09 08:37 PM.