Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome


It can reduce the stress on both of you.

It can give him the space he needs, or thinks he needs.

It can reduce the pressure he thinks you are putting on him.

It can save you from things popping out of your mouth that would better have been left in.

It can give you time to work on yourself, without feeling the pressure of being "on show" every time you see him.


Well gee, I guess there is all that. *sheepish grin*

Thanks for giving me my perspective back.