WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[MrBond]

Don't take them all the weekends unless you intend to go for full custody. And even then, you need to have a life.

Right now she's having her cake and eating it too. She feels no remorse as to how the sitch is affecting your kids. If she really did flat out tell your son that she's cheating, she is seriously messed up. I would sign them up for counseling. There's not telling how your kids are going to grow up with her behavior like that. I would have even called her out on in and document all that for your L. Make sure you log down all the times that she never took them to events.

If you want to press for the custody meeting, then give her a definite date. Tell her that you want to meet on a certain day and that if she does not comply, then you will talk to your L about it and have her foot the bill.

My guess is that she's going broke real fast from all her flings, so make sure you get a handle on the money issue asap. Be sure there's enough for you and your sons. It's what I said wayyy in the beginning of your sitch. She's looking to find someone else to hook on to and to hell with your kids.