Finally, my mother is driving me nuts. She talks about lawyers and D more than my H. I don't whine and complain to her, so it's not a matter of her wanting me out of pain. She has just decided to hate my H and wants him gone forever. I finally snapped and told her to stop harassing me and told her I know what needs to be done. She got huffy and said goodbye.
I need some guidance, please.
Boundaries are healthy in all relationships.
"I feel harassed and pressured by you when you talk about lawyers and getting a divorce. When you bring this up again I will ask you to stop, if you continue to do it then I will leave the room. This has the potential to damage our relationship long term."
Find your voice and calmly state it. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
