Now look at what you have been doing the last little while and determine if its been in that Plan A phase.

Cause you may have to go to Plan B.

Plan B. = No contact with WAS except when dealing with children. Even then you can use parents to drop kids off if you want to go to the extreme.

Have you got all your finaces in check ?
Who have you exposed the affiar too?

Have you gone out on any dates yourself ?