I am glad to see Dottie helped you. Telling W you want to talk about vacations and waiting on the camp part is a great idea. If she asks why, or starts to try to bait you just tell her we will talk about it later because you are not ready to discuss it now. Don't bring up anything else and stay calm.

Have a good night!

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