I was by no means a poster child for doing things correctly, but I have learned a ton in the over 2 years I've been dealing with this mess and while I'd love to be on here and help with what I've learned more often, someone's got to pay the bills!
Keep your chin up. It can be turned around.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.