I dont believe him that they have apsolutely NO CONTACT as he tells me.
Hello K,
When I read this quote from you I thought it would be safe to give you my 2 cents.
I think your H’s lack of desire for you is due to remnants of OW that are still with him (Physically, mentally or emotionally) and until these remnants fade you’re gonna be spinning until he can focus on you (or he goes back to her). There are plenty of other people on here who can testify that they have seen their spouse come back and give it a go only to be drawn back to the OP.
So in my opinion (a very simplistic view based on my own experience) there is not a lot you can do until your H completely comes to his senses or he slips up and you catch him out again. Slap me if I'm wrong but thats just my feelings at the moment.
