Of course, there is an OM and an EA. (I am chosing to ignore this as it does not impact my intentions of rejuvinating, resurrecting, revitalizing, recreating myself and my marriage.)
The old ostrich play.
Ignoring the affair does impact your
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intentions of rejuvinating, resurrecting, revitalizing, recreating myself and my marriage.
Ignoring a predator to your family makes you look weak, small, unsure and scared to your wife. A woman doesn't want to be married to a man who won't fight for her and his family. DBing is counter-intuitive, the tuition here is very high.
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I would appreciate some insight into how to break this script she is following.
Read up on boundaries. Then have faith that we won't steer you wrong.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.