Still in the tunnel with hubby

[Augtan]

I know exactly what you mean by your H was never this alien person he is now, mine wasn't either and we were together 21 years too..weird! He was a wonderful husband and father, home every night

You will know your limit when you reach it, but just take good care of yourself in the meantime.

I moved 700 miles away when XH moved out the second time, for the same reasons you listed you wouldn't want contact except for the kids. I just couldn't take seeing him with another woman either, don't know if I ever will get over that or not. The one and only time I saw him with her, I went nuts, I mean out of my mind crazy!! I know my limits and seeing the man I married, had three kids with, promised to love me, promised too many times to never, ever cheat on me, who told me everyday I was the "love of his life", have been with since I was 18 yrs. old with OW was just not going to work for me..ever! I would have been an episode of "Snapped" forsure! I know he is in MLC and if I had stayed near him I fear I would have never been able to do any DBing at all. This way, I am very dark with him and I don't to deal with him day to day at all.

You are very brave and sound very patient! I hope your session on Friday goes better than expected! Hang in there, you are a strong woman!

A