Sorry you're here, but it's the best place to be in a situation like this. Keep posting and everyone will help you tackle this in chunks. Cause it's not going to be solved in a week or month.
I would almost guarantee it's physical. The sooner you accept that, the better off you'll be. And anyone that says he's "just" a friend is lying.
First question is, are you ready to do all the work to save your marriage? Cause this will take a LONG time.
As long as your W is involved in an A, your marriage doesn't stand a chance. And once the A ends, which is most assuredly will, your W will have to go through withdrawal from OM before she'll see your marriage for what it really is/was. So don't pay any attention to the b.s. she says about it.
Break it into some paragraphs and we'll all help.
Last edited by Hope4us; 12/01/0908:01 PM.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
