What Puppy said.

Until the A is over and she's gone through withdrawal from it, you're p*ssing into the wind if you think she'll notice any changes in you.

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.