Jstar, be specific in what you want him to do to respect and support you and change. I know you probably think he should "know" this but outline a small list so he has no excuse in saying he didn't know.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004