my W doesn't regret her affair

[BeingMe]

Definitely go to the P/T meeting. If she wants to be childish and walk out, then that's her problem.

I just wonder why you are so bent on doing everything now, and not wait for Jan? Did you not send out a similar email a week or so ago? Got a similar reaction. Don't get addicted to sending emails, hoping for wild reactions --- it may end up biting you in the @ss. Your W is projecting her actions onto you, I think. She sees you as the inflexible, reactionary person, and her as the calm, giving person. Of course, she's going to say she won't pay for it. You played right into that, IMHO.

This is normal.

In her mind it is. Maybe she is having a nervous breakdown, but on the other hand, it is normal for MLCers to invent stuff, rewrite history, etc.