I had the most jacked up, insane conversation with my ex last night. She was all over the place.
It started out with her saying that OM will be staying at her place until Feb. until he goes to school or something. It then turned into " and if you're going to bring another woman around our kids I have a right to know who she is blah blah blah."
Uh....NO. I said you have no say in that, that is completely my call, I don't need to tell you a damn thing.
She seems to be getting worse. There were a couple of issues regarding lies and her words not matching anything she does I couldn't let slide. She brought this up and then completely contradicted herself in the next statement.
She said she wants to be civil (which lately things have been) and then went on to say how she wants to have more and better communication. I pointed out to her that her actions of last month totally went against what she just said she wanted. She was quiet.
There were times she had nothing to say and when she did, all she talked about was me thinking she was a bad mother and her trying to convince me that she does everything for the kids and only the kids.
I even heard "having OM makes me a better mother because now there are two people instead of one." I wanted to go nuclear on her a$$ at that point but didn't, I stuck to the issues.
At one point she even said to me "I'm having to learn all of this stuff." ( WTF!! She was actually right about that one!!!)
She also picked up on the fact that what I say to her makes her think about things and come up with an answer on her own. I heard, "you always say just enough, and you dance around things and never come out and say it." (ya think!! I might possibly do that so you will come up with the answer on your own silly)
The latest has me convinced the something about this truly has erased parts of her mind. I am still taken back by how twisted her way of thinking is and how it again seems to be getting worse.
