Thanks Puppy. I take that as a real compliment coming from you.
Sometimes I wonder if I truly had the patience or if I was just too pig headed to quit. Maybe because I KNEW we had a good marriage prior to her A it allowed me to know that if I just hung on long enough and made the changes she'd commented about in the mess, that eventually she'd come around.
Of course, I could strangle W sometimes. The other day we were talking and she revealed that she knew she wanted to be with me and stay quite a while ago, but couldn't bring herself to say so. Nice. Part of that makes me love her more, knowing that she recognized how much she'd hurt me and didn't know how to get out of it, but at the same time, makes me a little angry that she couldn't come out and tell me when she figured it out.
Oh well. No sense in worrying about it now. Life's good and getting better.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.