Maybe you could also give your L some of your statements from before he started his A, showing that you had the cards paid down if not totally paid off. The judge might want to hear what he has been charging.
The sad thing is that I don't even think B will save his spending ways. He feel that he is entitled. Sorry but he isn't.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory