Party at BeTheMan's House! Worth the 45 minute wait to get over the Peace Bridge.
Seriously, brother, you can look at this as a blessing or a curse.
If you choose 'curse' then I can almost guarantee a year from now you will still be posting here. Your thread name will be something like: Depressed and Masterbating - 10, and you will be telling us what breakfast cereal you are eating and we'll be telling you the same things we are now. Curse no good for you or us.
Choose Blessing. You can wake up each morning and decide how you will IMPROVE yourself and YOUR LIFE without the stress of your wife, marriage, and those issues. You can wake up each morning and decide how you will IMPROVE yourself and YOUR LIFE with your first cup of coffee. Then go for it. The game has changed. Embrace it.
There is all this talk on this site about outshining the other man. Well in your case there may be no other man. So lucky you simply needs to outshine your wife's perception of the man she remembers you as. She put you in the mirror. Take a good look at yourself (and remember to smile!) and realize what you need to do to become not only the most attractive package available to your wife, but for any woman you so desire.
Remember, the process of Divorce Busting is counter-intutitive. It so happens that often when you set out to be attractive to someone else the end result is you attract interested in your walk away spouse.
