Other than a few finance related exchanges, I haven't spoken to my H much. I have not seen him in 10 days. Am I even DB when I never see him and only speak occasionally in text or email.

Also, our D11 got an award at school today. She didn't invite him, so I didn't push it. Should I send him some of the photos?

Finally, my mother is driving me nuts. She talks about lawyers and D more than my H. I don't whine and complain to her, so it's not a matter of her wanting me out of pain. She has just decided to hate my H and wants him gone forever. I finally snapped and told her to stop harassing me and told her I know what needs to be done. She got huffy and said goodbye.

I need some guidance, please.