I think you are missing rob's point, the sooner you accept this is over the better chance you have seeing her comeback and you making the choices for a change.
And damn it, why are you not a guy to throw a party, I do not know you, but your attitude makes me think that I do not want to be around you either. On the other hand if I were invited to your party, I would think you would be most rightous! Are you getting any of what these people are saying to you?
