So the last couple days have been less then stellar. We did have an argument over nothing really. If I read between the lines we were arguing about "why do you not love me anymore?" Both of us trying to tell the other, I would love you if...

We talked the next day and I took her to lunch and she treated. We had a good time. The downside... She gave me the signed divorce papers.

The up side she said we can take some time and work on revising the parenting plan if we want. Between the lines she was saying "Do not sign this yet."

This is the first time I really believe that she does not want the divorce. I do not believe what she says. Her actions are friendly and giving at this point. We spent about 2 hours together yesterday with lunch and my daughters swim lessons.

I believe she wants to come back but needs me to build the "face saving" path so she can justify it to her family after all the stupid lies and distortions she has told them.

Is this possible? Is this the mindset of someone who wants to turn around but cannot because of pride?

Thanks


Me 33
WOW 31
Married 12 years
4 YOD
1 YOD(adoption process)
Bomb & moved out 4/01/09
Divorced 12/17/09