Hey BIM, just thought I'd pop onto your thread and let you know I'm still 'watching' and haven't run away.
Thanks, G. Appreciate it.
Luv's response on my thread prompted me to take a look at her sitch. Boy, do some things hit home when you see such similarities with your own!!! So now I am contemplating my responsibility in this M (by this, I meant MESS instead of Marriage. Ah, why not use it as a double intendre? It sure fits.)
Truth is, I feel sad. How did this happen? How did we get to this place? He used to be my best friend. I can't make him trust me, I know that. But right now, I am thinking 'what to do with all this'? It's not like a crazy aunt you can pretend not to remember until you see her every year around the holidays. I mean, it's my M!!!!!! OK, maybe I'm mad and sad. I need to go and gather myself.
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127