Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

DBD, thank you. I KNOW what I'm doing is not what most BS do. I don't recommend it for most! I know the odds are slim to none that I will succeed in drawing my WH back. But I am inspired by a few success stories using this method and by this saying:

"Before the A, the WS compares the BS to the OP. After the A starts, the WS compares the OP to the BS."

So if he wants her in the end, obviously I made the worst judgment call on what kind of person he is! There goes my track record...

On the other site I go to, I saw that 24/28 BSs filed for divorce before their WSs did, many within months after DDay. It did not bring their WS back and I think it has to do with the newness of the A that P17 was talking about. Maybe they didn't want their WS back, though.