Is my wife a WAW or is this a MLC? thx2brs

[Jack_Three_Beans]

She thought I was controlling.
That I didn't share my feelings with her.
That I wasn't there for the kids enough.
That she couldn't be her true care free happy self. D said we both seem happier apart.
That I smothered her with flowers and candy when she would've rather had the money.
That I didn't like her friends.
That I can't sit still and left her alone a lot when we were in large groups. TRUE
That everything had to be done at my convenience or I over did, she thought it was wierd that I'd get up at 2 am and beat her to the laundry. TRUE, I over compensated and stressed about making her happy, always felt like I was repenting and I always just wanted her to myself.
That I'm intense and she said I could say something wonderful to her, but my actions showed otherwise.
That if she did something I didn't approve of, she'd hear about it. Kinda true.
That we didn't do enough together.
That TV ruined our family.

Which of those are true?

i wouldn't have the relationship with the kids i have now.

That part is likely true. Just ignore her setting herself up as a hero in that version of the story.

Kid,

there is a good chance that you'll take this wrong, and you shouldn't. Stop wtih the Dear's and Honey crap. I'm willing to bet she doesn't want to hear it. I know I didn't, I found it demeaning and condesending. Food for thought, your choice if you want to eat it.