(((Luv)))

Sounds like you and I are dealing with many of the same things in our M. I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. It sucks, I know.

One thing that I was thinking while reading through your entire sitch is "how can she say he is a good guy and then describe the horrible things he does to her, ie. ignore her, be emotionally unavailable"? Then it hit me that we are both doing the same thing. We love our H, despite their selfish, ridiculous tendencies and choices to be emotionally abusive.

We have to keep on keepin on for ourselves and our kids. Just keep your chin up and know you are not alone in this.

I will add you to my prayers because feeling alone in your marriage is a very difficult thing to handle, day in and day out, or year in and year out in my case.

I'll keep checking in on you.

bim


Last edited by brownidmom; 12/01/09 05:23 PM.

BIM
M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11

my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127