Yes, she either ignores aspects of it or wants to change parts of it. I have stood strong and have followed the plan to a T. She's not good at details and apparently isn't interpreting the plan correctly. Its not my job to interpret it for her, not that its that complicated.
She wants to now 'ignore' all the single day holidays and honor only the week long breaks. Xmas, thanksgiving. I guess its just too complicated to her.
The point of contention over xmas holidays is we split the time over the two weeks from 'end of school to return to school'. A couple weeks ago xw took kids out of school to create a 4 day weekend for herself. Now she's going to pull kids out 3 days prior to xmas vacation to prolong her time with the kids to be out of town. I don't think its right she takes the kids out of school, especially when my sons grades aren't very good. And, my thoughts are 'end of school vacation' starts when she pulls kids out of schoolwhich would effect the drop off date. She isn't saying when she's pulling the kids out, only telling me when xmas vacation is scheduled by the school district. I don't want to get my attorney involved, but xw is only concerned about her vacations.
