I can't understand what the problem is - maybe I'm not reading this right.

You have a parenting plan? And she keeps wanting to change it or schedule time that is not hers?

Why? And why do you allow it?

What's in the parenting plan goes. End of story. Full stop. If she goes away when she is due to have the kids then it's HER responsibility to make alternative arrangements. If she goes away and wants the kids when you are due to have them, TOUGH.

Parenting plans are drawn up so both parties understand their responsibilities. They are not drawn up as a starting place for negotiations. Negotiations have already taken place BEFORE the plan was drawn up.

Last edited by P17; 12/01/09 04:50 PM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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