feel like giving up - talk to me!

[luvless]

I know. I actually think it's worse. This is how he punishes me by witholding affection. I hate feeling like a victim..it goes against who I am. Yes I have told him how he makes me feel in every way possible. The nice way, the I can't take it anymore way and the mean way. He works at it and then every couple of years he starts up with his attitude (pompous and rude) distant - maybe some girl at the office puffs him up - who knows. I think he is MLC and maybe near WAH. I don't even know. What is really weird is that we've had a great last 3yrs - I can't believe I missed this one...how did I not see this coming? SCARY