Who I am, affection without hesitations or need for reciprocity.
Today is day 1.
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On another note, here is a question to any women who have been through the loss of a parent:
What kind of support would you have wanted? Please be specific.
Mrs. T is a bit depressed (understandably) - going to bed early, etc. I am available for her to talk to, but she does not do so. When she needs to talk to someone she calls one of her siblings or her girlfriends.
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I spent some time this morning counting out my vacation days and and looking at my project schedule. I called Mrs. T and told her "Any time you want to go back to visit your Mom between now and Christmas, just let me know and then go. I have enough vacation. I'll handle everything here."
She responded "OK, I think I will - just have to finish my christmas shopping first...".
"Even if you are not done with the shopping, you should still go. I'll handle that too."
"Thank You"
We are going to go through the christmas lists tonight so she can feel free to go.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
