Bridge - I'm not in a physically abusive marriage. My H is just emotionally unavailable to me - always has been. I'm reading and learning...hoping to make changes not just for us but for me. I wish he was doing the same. I've always worked harder it seems. Somedays I wanna give up (most days lately) but I am not a quitter so here I am.


Thank you so much commenting and giving your opinion. Everyone here has been great.


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10