Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[January girl]

Well, I'd say my immediate goals are as follows:
1.) Get our house organized
2.) Spend quality time doing different/fun activities
with my kids.
3.) Continuing to lose weight/work out
4.) Stay strong emotionally
5.) Be a good listener

As far as boundaries I believe that "no contact with her
until he moves out" is pretty clear.

As far as taking control of the situation I believe that I have a long way to go in regards to not "going down cheeseless
tunnels." BUT, I think that just being aware that I'm doing it is one step in the right direction.

And no, I'm not a victim. Not anymore....but I do have days that feel very tough.