My W forwarded me an email stating all the Christmas stuff going on in the suburb she lives in for the month of December, but she didn't comment on any of it. She just forwarded it.
Is that a hint for me to take the girls? Is it something she may be interested in all of us doing? Is it just for my own benefit? What the heck.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
You r detached remember so it's doesnt matter if you reply to her email with a "whats this for? or not" Being detached is all about not caring either way what she thinks or says. If a friend or family member sent you an email like this how would you reply? I'm guessing. Why did you forward me this?
My W forwarded me an email stating all the Christmas stuff going on in the suburb she lives in for the month of December, but she didn't comment on any of it. She just forwarded it.
Is that a hint for me to take the girls? Is it something she may be interested in all of us doing? Is it just for my own benefit? What the heck.
Kevin
an oops? kelly is right above kevin in her address list.
You are doing a great job. Wish I was doing as well as you are, mine would never invite me to do anything with D13. If you get a chance can you hop over to my thread and read the details.
Thanks. I think I will just not reply. If there is anything to it, she will bring it up at some point I'm sure.
I am anxiously awaiting the arrival of my motorola droid phone today. It is in transit. It will give me something to play with tonight while my girls are talking to the C. I also get my time in with the C tonight. I'm not sure what I am going to say tonight.
My W wanted to make sure I was getting the girls tonight. I'm not sure why. Like I would just forget about them on my night. DOH!
I'm not the one that drove off without them and then remembered she had kids 5 minutes later. Yes, this happened this past Friday. My W went to get the kids from her mom after work. She got to the house, and then left without the kids. 5 minutes later, she comes back and has remembered that she has kids that are supposed to go with her. I only know this because D11 sent me a text saying that her mom left without them. How does one forget their kids?
The interesting thing is that D11 referred to her mom by her moms name instead of mom. That struck me as odd.
I am looking forward to getting my girls tonight. Then they will be back with their mom until Friday night when I have them again for my week.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Why would a kid refer to their parent by their parents name instead of as mom or dad? Any ideas what is going on there?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Why would a kid refer to their parent by their parents name instead of as mom or dad? Any ideas what is going on there?
Kevin
Don't speculate. She may just be doing that because she is 11. I had to smile when I read that though. Sometimes when my kids can't get my attention by MOM they will call me by my first name in a joking way.
Have fun with your girls and your new phone.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
It just struck me as odd. But I am sure it was nothing. I was actually more concerned that my W would show up to get the kids and then drive off without them and then remember 5 minutes later to come back and get them. I was kind of racking my brain on that one trying to figure that one out.
Unfortunately my bosses want to take us to lunch to day for a Christmas lunch since they are in town and won't be in town the rest of the month. While I am appreciative of that, it means I can't leave to go get my phone when it gets delivered. I have to wait til after work to get it. Dang it. lol. The anticipation is killing me.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I am checking the fedex tracking website every 15 minutes to see if it has been delivered yet. Still not delivered. lol.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
