Puppy, Coach, you guys are so right. I am worried/concerned about my time there on R & R, even though I have no control at all over what she does to sabotage it. That is one of the parts I feel so out of control of. I'm really not worried about her threats, as I have repeatedly shot them down with facts. I am just getting concerned now at her silence, and for what she is going to do to hurt me. Any ideas on what she might do next in all of this? I know they follow a pattern, but is she doing everything that others have done-up to this point? She clearly is NOT the woman I fell in love with, or had kids with. She really is alien to me right now. This all feels backwards as to what I have been taught/society's rules on how to deal with this stuff. I gotta get my mind right, and hopefully the rest will follow close behind.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010