One more thing--this business of French culture. I realize the French do several things differently than Americans, and that's fine. But I had no idea that you were French from your posts. Is your wife French? Do you live in France? I guess what I'm asking is, again, does your wife know that she's living under French rules of fidelity and marriage?
Beyond that the real question is still this: why are you here? What is your goal? You need to know and so do we.
