Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Well,

Hopefully the cleansing of OM has begun.

XW was to set up an appointment for S11 to get his physical done and I hadn't heard anything by the time I left work. So I texted her that I was leaving work and if there was any updates to when his appointment would be. She replied it is on Friday. Then a few minutes later she replied back "oh yeah, hi!". Being confused by this I replied 'hi' aswell, then she did the same.

Trying to drag humor into the situation I sent "lol, "hi" war", meaning what is this a war of 'hi's' until somebody gives up? She replies, "No I never want that ever" which I didn't get a chance to reply to right away because I was on the road. So she then comes back asking if I'm mad at her. I said no, driving, and when I got home replied, "why would you think I was mad". And thus she finally calls. We made small talk over each other's work days, initiated by me asking how her day was, something I failed to do often thrughout the course of the M (yep, keeping the 180's going). That put her in good spirits, good enough to inform that she was resting in the (our) jacuzzi tub, sipping a wine and soaking, and was just thinking of things (we had some really good time in that tub after I installed it)

That made my head kind of flutter and I did have the oven pre-heating for dinner and dog barking all over the yard, so she opted to let me go. Short converation, but productive.

Then, here's where things get weird. About a half hour later, she calls again, wants to know if I'm missing any money. As soon as I say 'no, I don't keep cash on hand', the phone's cut out. I call her back right away and get her voice mail and clarify the phones cut out and to let me know what is going on, figuring S12 has been hocking his video games or something at school again. No reply.

I wait an hour and call again, another voice mail. I should say this is also another 180 for me, I was always of the mindset of 'if it's that important, you'll back'. No reply.

Now, it's easy to think, and after texting her another half hour later, she sasys her phone died. She finally did call back, sounding upset, says she was tired and her back was hurting, but she sounded like she was crying, I even asked, she said no.

Anyway S12 apparently took his lunch money for next month and some money from Xw's stash and bought a bike from some kid was the issue. Why would you give him $60 cash?

But any way, again, she said she was just tired, and laying in her bed, like trying to give me this visual.

Eh-well.

I have my suspicion OM is seeing the door close on him and is trying to get his foot in. Dang, I wish I still lived in town. Eh, well, I have utmost faith that if she wants what she says she does, she'll do the right thing.

I haven't received any message or anything from her yet today.