I spoke to my W tonight, we had a laugh about something our son had done. He was supposed to get a haircut this afternoon, and thought he would get a head start by doing some himself. Luckily he didn't do too much damage. W sent me a picture.
I also spoke to her about her taking our son on a holiday. She did mention it on Sunday night and I said that I needed to think about it. She did get upset. Tonight I told her that she could take him for as long as she likes, and that I was being selfish and that he would love to spend time with her and his happiness is what is important. She thanked me and she sounded genuinely pleased. We also had a joke about my trip with him. I had to get her to check the validity of our passports, and she thought mine was nearing the expiration date. She joked by saying that she'll have to take him to Fiji instead of me.
It was a pleasant conversation, and I felt good after it. I know it means nothing in reagards to our relationship, but it's a baby step to re-building our friendship.
