I wasn't expecting anything else then tough love grin honestly - was I wishing for something else - of course lol
But that wouldn't be helpful now would it? cool

I thought about it that maybe the holidays have something to do with his change of behaviour - not sure of that - it started already in October - he went for a short trip to Romania with his budddy and I sent him a text to wish him a good trip and that he really deserved a break. That might have helped.He is calling once a week at the moment - will see if it stays that way - time is flying anyway - I have so many other things to do with the kids... I keep you updated what happens...