Braveheart and BeingMe, I hear you both and thankyou for your replies, Braveheart yes you do have good points and I am not disputing that, you have my ex explained to the point, and I accept what you are saying. BeingMe you also understand where I am coming from too and I always have comfort in those that understand my situation without jumping to the wrong conclusions. I have to admit it is hard to put down in writing and portray your true feelings on this subject sometimes when reading you can read too much into it and read it wrong, no hard feeling though Braveheart, xx
