this is all great advice. This board has helped me arm myself for almost any situation she throws at me. I am learning more and more, each day. The support that all of us get her is invaluable in our lives. I know she is in a fog right now, but to see this side of her, is tearing me up. Actually I dread any contact with her right now, as I am unsure of what evil, hateful things she might say or do. I agree about her using my boys for her own vengeance, it IS horrible. I think that she might take a step back and start to look a what she is doing-but then again, I might be wrong. I also, think that me changing the account stuff might diminish the chances of my PI of finding anything, as she doesn't have the means to go out now. It is just so much to absorb, and process right now.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010
