Can I save my marriage?

[praying_in_GA]

LOL! Ok, so now we really are in the same boat. H is in the spare room too. Listen, don't talk about the R too much...if at all. Just keep playing it cool, be happy, go out, have a life and be fine when he goes out for his. These are all things I have messed up on big time. Do not look for validation or reassurances. Expect nothing!! Nothing at all. That way if something good happens you will be plesantly surprised.

You can do this, I can do this. It is time we reached deep down for that hidden inner strength we both possess. This is the time to show him how amazing you are and how family life should be. Give him space but allow him to see that you are there.

Good luck, I will keep up with you!