I agree. If she had plans to go out and it was her days with the kids and she made plans to leave them with grandma, then no big deal. But if you actually asked for them, then i see it differently. I've had a few of those nights too, where H went out and I know SIL watched them. As far as I'm concerned if I'm home anyways, why can't I have them? I haven't really discussed this yet with my H, but sometimes I think that maybe its good to not be pulling and pushing them back and forth. They need a little bit of stability. So I've left it for now and just used my time to work on me and take a breath and realize I will see them soon.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
