just a quick update. I found out today that my W, her sister and her mum have all been seing the same councillor. My W's sister has also recently split with her boyfriend and while I was speaking to him today, he said that W's sister told him that she didn't care if they got back together or not.
My sister also got a message from W today saying that she has seen all the changes I have made in regards to my health and more interest in our son's life and that she is sad she had to end our marriage for the changes to occur. W also said that time will heal all wounds and hopefully W and I can work better as friends. My sister had sent her a message previously asking her if she needed to talk that she could speak to her and didn't think that it would come to this.