Call up each of the accounts, and ask to speak to an officer of the bank. Explain the situation, and that you are the one financially responsible for the payments, and that you're only trying to ensure that they get them on a timely basis. I think you said she's been late with these before; I would think they would want to work with you to get the payments to be more timely?
Puppy
SD, sorry sh!ts hitting the fan. I encourage Puppy's idea here. I work in a lending department for a bank and think the best thing you can do regarding this issue is to speak directly to your loan officer. Get his/her direct #, explain the entire situation, and call the officer on a monthly basis to make the payments if you can't do anything about the password issue. The bank wants a responsible person paying on time.
It sounded earlier in your thread that her brothers and you were on the same page. Use that. My in laws love me and I love them. They appreciate that I love and respect thier daughter. Don't let her draw you into conflict. If she's going to be crazy and vindictive and you can't stop her from ruining the crotches of your pants, just know that sane poeple (Iincluding her loved ones) will look at the situation and see you as a reasonable loving respectful spouse and her as ridiculous.
Age: 28 Wife's Age: 28 Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off) Married: Less than one year Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011
