Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

All, this is not the woman I married, I can tell you that. Yes, she has been combative in the past, not physical, but verbal. And yes, I put up with that sometimes. I am starting to see this side of her, and I don't like it very much. Evil, vindictive, spiteful. I dunno, I know I asked this before, but is this normal behavior? I mean, she has been nasty in the past-once in a while, but not like this. I think she is BP, not sure though!!!! She just had my son call me and ask me for the wireless password, I said NO. It is really starting to get nasty. Not sure where I go from here, or what actions I take...