Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I would reply all and say something like:

"I can hear that you're upset by this, but destroying my personal property will only add to our problems, and I will hold you responsible. Since you cannot talk to me respectfully, without using obscenity, this communication is over."

Puppy

[Super Girl]

Plus on the upside... good men in uniforms look hot..... just remember that.

Yep.

[SoldierDad]

Puppy, I just tried to log into mortgage account-she called and had password changed. I called them, basically, either one of us can call at any time, and change password-no Ind. passwords. Oh well, guess I just gotta call them every month to make the payment. This is going to happen on every account, every month. She is going to make this difficult. Also, I just fired back that response- to all. Sad Girl, you make me blush!!!

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Call up each of the accounts, and ask to speak to an officer of the bank. Explain the situation, and that you are the one financially responsible for the payments, and that you're only trying to ensure that they get them on a timely basis. I think you said she's been late with these before; I would think they would want to work with you to get the payments to be more timely?

Puppy

[SoldierDad]

Puppy, good advice. I am worried about what she does to my stuff, clothes/equipment/tools/etc. from here on out. She can be very evil, when she wants to. She told me that when she found out her XH was cheating on her, she cut the crotches out of all of his pants!! I have so many things running through my head right now, as to what she is doing/going to do. I think I rattled the cage too much on this one...

[Super Girl]

SD, forgive me, but your wife sounds like a bit of a whackadoodle. My first instinct is to email her and say something like...listen you batshit crazy b!tch..., but what Puppy says is probably best.

Blush if you must, but it's true SD. Men in uniform are hawt.

[Super Girl]

She told me that when she found out her XH was cheating on her, she cut the crotches out of all of his pants!!

If I laughed, does that make me coo coo too?

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Puppy, good advice. I am worried about what she does to my stuff, clothes/equipment/tools/etc. from here on out. She can be very evil, when she wants to. She told me that when she found out her XH was cheating on her, she cut the crotches out of all of his pants!! I have so many things running through my head right now, as to what she is doing/going to do. I think I rattled the cage too much on this one...

Sounds like you married a real princess.

[mindfull]

If I laughed, does that make me coo coo too?

I'm guilty, as well!!

Seriously, I know someone who did that, and then delivered them to the girlfriends front lawn! She also took all of these animal head things that he had collected over the years, and sold them to a nearby bar/pub. AND, if that's not good enough, she faked a report, saying he had an STD! LOL

OK, not funny.

It's only funny because it is so whacked.

Sorry, SD... We digress.

Just for the record, though, Miss Pottymouth is a piece of work. Was she this combative in an argument in the past? Does she thrive on the drama? Or is she truly reacting to you not playing along?

[SoldierDad]

All, this is not the woman I married, I can tell you that. Yes, she has been combative in the past, not physical, but verbal. And yes, I put up with that sometimes. I am starting to see this side of her, and I don't like it very much. Evil, vindictive, spiteful. I dunno, I know I asked this before, but is this normal behavior? I mean, she has been nasty in the past-once in a while, but not like this. I think she is BP, not sure though!!!! She just had my son call me and ask me for the wireless password, I said NO. It is really starting to get nasty. Not sure where I go from here, or what actions I take...