Umm, I'm not sure Coach, Greek, Puppy et al will respond at this time ...

but just as a suggestion, do nothing? Don't react. If and when she does contact you again, tell her calmly you do not appreciate being verbally abused and disrespected, that you'll appreciate if communications can be at least civil.

Been silently following your thread, hang in there.

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.