Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ok, need some help!!! Evidently when I changed the mortgage info, and other bills info, they sent her a courtesy e-mail. This is what she sent me in response:

[censored] do not [censored] with the bills i have never not paid the bills stop [censored] around or i will [censored] your bike up do not push me one more time ....

Also, while I was typing this, she called me and told me basically the same thing, calling me names, saying she would F up my Harley, my life, career etc... I told her that I was sorry she felt that way, and that I was only protecting myself and the family because she was irresponsible with money. Also, just read the e-mail again-she cc'd her brothers on it. Previously, she had not brought her brothers into the M. They all agree with me, on what she is doing. What do I do now? Thoughts???