I picture the WAS stomping their little feet and poking their bottom lip out like a 2 year old. At least I know that it made my 31 y/o H turn into an angsty, bitchy 14 year old boy.
I would certainly be prepared to hear "I dont want to hurt you, but YOU made me do this!" Some how, it will be ALL your fault, Im sure.
I'll second this! My WAS had a MAJOR emotional regression and threw tantrums any time something didn't go her way back in the thick of her affair. They expect to be able to control every scrap of information and action on both ends. Take some secret stoic delight in squashing that notion!
Age: 28 Wife's Age: 28 Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off) Married: Less than one year Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011