HELP! H CALLED TONIGHT AND STATED HE WANTS TO COME STAY AT THE HOUSE. HE CALLED ME AT THREE IN THE MORNING FOR NO REASON THEN TEXT ME IN THE MORNING ASKING IF HE CAN COME STAY AT HOME AGAIN CAUSE HE DOESNT WANT TO STAY AT HIS SISTERS ANYMORE. NOT SURE WHAT THIS ALL MEANS. HE IS HOME NOW. IM NOT YET. WHAT DO I DO! HELP! I FEEL LIKE THIS IS HIS WAY OF COMING HOME AGAIN HE HIS JUST SCARED TO SAY IT.
Relax. Take deep breaths.
Nothing has really changed, except that he's not over there any more. You still work on your 180's and GAL.
If he wants to get romantic or ML, you reinforce (or set?) the boundary -- "Until you decide what you want to do, it's too confusing for me to be intimate with you."
Avoid R talk until he's really to work with you.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
