Cutter, I know you are trying to be helpful, but there is a big difference between a Pathological Liar and someone who has developed a habit of lying to deal with some bad choices. My H was a very honest man before this A.
As for the rest of the advice, I am actually feeling quite angry right now. I need time to process this. I need to make the right choices for me in my sitch.
And, I am stressed. So, I am going to take a bit of time away and sort this out. thanks for all of your concern.
